She was about to cross into Tibet for a long-awaited pilgrimage – then her messages stopped

Early on Wednesday, Sudipto Bhattacharya received what would be the last message from his wife.

Key points

• The 43-year-old is now among at least 290 Indians documented missing after deadly flash floods struck along Nepal's border with Tibet.
• She took the Mithila Express from Kolkata and reached Raxaul on 22 August.
• The next morning, 26 August, Subhrasree left her hotel shortly after 7am.
• Their names now appear on the Nepal government's official list, externalof 537 missing individuals.
• After clearing Nepal immigration, pilgrims cross the border on foot to the Chinese immigration facility in Gyirong.

It indicated a departure stamp in her passport: immigration at the Nepal border was done. We are waiting to enter China, she wrote, at 07: 57 (02: 27 GMT). Six minutes afterwards, at 08: 03 local time, the messages ceased.

Subhrasree Chakraborty and the group she was travelling with had been waiting to cross into Tibet for the next stage of their pilgrimage to Mount Kailash, the sacred Himalayan home of Hindu god Shiva that Subhrasree had dreamed of visiting for years.

For context, the 43-year-old is now among at least 290 Indians documented missing after deadly flash floods struck along Nepal's border with Tibet. Plenty of of those unaccounted for were on the pilgrimage. It resumed last year after being disrupted by the pandemic and then by tensions between India and China. A number of thousand Indians have been making their way to Mount Kailash for years.

As part of a group of regarding 30 residents, subhashree was travelling without her family. A medical technologist working in critical care at a city hospital, Subhrasree was applied to emergencies. She knew CPR and intensive-care procedures and, according to her husband, was physically fit.

But none of that has brought her husband Sudipto Bhattacharya any closer to knowing what happened after that final message. "After 08: 03am, what happened? We don't know anything, " he notes. Subhrasree had been looking forward to the journey for years.

Notably, the photographs she sent home from Kathmandu, taken just days before she went missing, capture something of that excitement.

In one, she stands in a blue tunic in the ornate courtyard of a temple, smiling gently at the camera. In others, she is dressed in red, posing against the backdrop of the ancient brick-and-carved-wood architecture of Kathmandu valley's historic Durbar Square. She informed her husband that the countryside was beautiful.

"She was very excited, " notes Bhattacharya, a administration officer. "This was her dream tour." The journey had begun on Friday, 21 August.

She took the Mithila Express from Kolkata and reached Raxaul on 22 August. From there she crossed into Birgunj and travelled by bus to Kathmandu, arriving that night. She stayed in Kathmandu for three nights, sightseeing.

Then, on the morning of 25 August, the group left Kathmandu by bus for Syabrubesi, a small mountain settlement roughly 122km north of Kathmandu and a gateway to the trekking hub of Langtang region. The journey took almost 12 hours – and was not entirely a smooth one.

For context, a landslide blocked their route for regarding four hours before the army cleared the road. But when Subhrasree spoke to her husband, she informed him the skies were clear. There was little to suggest what was coming.

"She kept saying the weather was good, " he notes. "She said it was rather warm, it was raining sometimes."

In practice, the next morning, 26 August, Subhrasree left her hotel shortly after 7am.

Bhattacharya spoke to her on the phone, and the two continued messaging afterwards. Around an hour afterwards, she informed him the Nepal immigration formalities were complete and that the group was waiting to cross into Tibet.

Bhattacharya believes his wife may have been inside, or close to, the Chinese immigration building when the disaster struck. Then the connection disappeared.

"I knew there would be connectivity issues on the Tibet side, " he notes. "So I waited for the next message."

At regarding 3pm, he saw reports of the floods in the media. He began calling pilgrims in her group. Nobody answered.

He tried the tour operator and then the two managers accompanying the group. Again, there was no answer. The family has heard nothing from Subhrasree since.

"Have they been rescued? Was this group among those rescued in China?" Bhattacharya asks. "We want to know more."

He believes his wife and the others may already have crossed into Chinese territory before the floods struck. But he has received no confirmation of who created it throughout – or what happened to them afterwards.

"Please get me a list from the Chinese government, " he notes. "Missing, dead and rescued. We need an update."

Then comes the admission that captures the agony of those waiting at home: "What do I tell you? Sleepless nights, working on the phone." For the family of 54-year-old Rina Banerjee, there is more uncertainty.

They do not even know which side of the border she was on when they lost contact.

Rina, an unmarried private tutor from Kolkata, was travelling alone with a tour operator as part of the same pilgrimage group.

Until then, her journey had appeared to be going smoothly. Her nephew, Dwaipayan Mukherjee, notes the family had spoken to her over video calls while she was in Kathmandu.

"She was happy, " he notes. "She was doing a trip after a long time."

Rina was no stranger to mountains. She had travelled in the hills before and gone hiking with her family.

"She was quite fit, " Mukherjee notes. "We have gone hiking. We are applied to going to the mountains."

She had informed him concerning the landslide they encountered on the way the previous day. The group was stuck for regarding four hours, she had stated.

Notably, the next morning, the tour operator sent a group photograph. It indicated Rina outside the Nepal immigration centre. Like Subhrasree, she had received her departure stamp, Mukherjee notes. Then came the silence.

"I don't know whether they crossed the border or not, " Mukherjee notes. "Whether they were on the Chinese side or the Nepal side, we are still wondering."

For Subhrasree, the two-week tour was to be her first pilgrimage, and a dream she had nurtured for years. Rina, too, had long wanted to create the journey and was no stranger to the mountains.

Both women shared what Bhattacharya calls a "wanderlust" – a love of travelling, discovering new places and, in their case, heading into the mountains.

Both had joined a group for the pilgrimage of a lifetime. Both appear to have cleared Nepal immigration, and both were believed to have crossed the border.

Their names now appear on the Nepal government's official list, externalof 537 missing individuals. But that offers little clarity – their families still have no idea where they are or whether they are safe. The Kolkata-based tour operator notes they have no information concerning the fate of the group yet.

For both families, the journey has concluded with the same unanswered question: did the women produce it throughout the border?

For now, she was about to cross into Tibet for a long-awaited pilgrimage remains the part of the story worth watching, and further updates are likely as more details are confirmed.